Dating

My Mom and Dad made this rule that we can't date until we are freshmen. I really hated that rule but then when I became a freshmen I loved it. I told Mom right after school on my last day as a sophomore, "Yes now I can date" lol I was so excited. When school started again I didn't really care to date anyone. I was excited I could but didn't really care to date as much as before. About 3 weeks into the school year we went on a school field trip. While we were there I made some friends. I loved it....well part of it. I think the most fun of that trip is when we got told a rule and we broke it right away lol.

The rule was no boys in the girls room and no girls in the boys room.....oh and no phones. We broke both rules. I had my cell phone and when we got into the room I called my mom and told her we made it. Then we snuck a friends brother into our room so they could call their mom and tell her they made it. We almost got caught. Right after they got off the phone a teacher knocked on the door. We said just a minute and told the brother to get in the bathroom and be quiet until we said he could come out. We got that covered and let him leave. Shockingly we didn't get in trouble.

While we were there the one guy we snuck in the room introduced me to one of our knew students at High Point. I was excited he made some friends during the trip. We talked a bit while we were there but not much. When we got back to school the next day or so I talked with that person some more. I told a friend of mine that I thought he was cute and that I liked him.....come to find out he was saying the same thing to his friends. A few of them were telling him to ask me out and all....he finally gave in and did.

That was really exciting someone asked me out. I was so excited I told almost everyone. He made more friends just because he was talking about me to people. I believe we dated for about a week or two. Someone who liked me wanted to be with me but I kept telling him no because he was like a brother nothing more. He made a rumor which got to my sister then my mom. I had to break up with my boyfriend because of it. We were so mad.

After a while I was hanging out talking to my ex-boyfriend and a friend and just happened to get asked out by another guy....that was mostly just to get my first boyfriend off my mind. But ended up I forgot about him for a bit but not as long as I was thinking....Later that year if I remember correctly I broke up with him. He was being an idiot and I was about to just ring his neck if he didn't leave me alone. He cousin wanted to go out with me....Oh my goodness I honestly hated him that year (I know hate is a strong word so I extremely disliked him). I kept telling him no and people kept telling me just go ahead and say yes. I never did go out with him but we are friends.

A few friends and I looked into this rumor that was spread around. I waited two years before I dated again. I was completely anti-social one year because of it and another reason. After two years the one student who spread the rumor and my first boyfriend and I were talking. We mentioned how I probably wouldn't have dated my first boyfriend if it wasn't for him introducing me to him. I found out that I probably would have been asked out anyways even if we weren't introduced. That was when I found out that the one student made up that rumor just because he wanted to be with me and I told him no so he didn't want me to be with anyone.

This was my Junior year of school. For about an entire semester I was irritating a friend of mine because I kept saying I really still like this guy, I really would like to go back out with him and much more. She got to the point where she was going to tell him what I said. I was about to just go hide. A few days later we started talking some more and then we became really close friends. In September I was texting him and I just asked him one small question...I think he took it the wrong way but oh well. I asked him "what do you think about going out again?" He replied, "sure." That didn't answer my question but I asked a friend what just happened. She told me that I just asked my first boyfriend out and he said yes.

I didn't know what to do, this was the night of September 22,2010. We kind of went to homecoming together. He helped me at school and I helped him. We went to a magic show with my family and we even went to the movies. I asked a friend it her and her boyfriend would do a double date with up because I didn't want any of my family to come with us. We went and watched gnomeo and juliet that was a lot of fun and it was very cute. We just had a lot of fun. We kept getting in trouble because he would hug me...but I didn't care we kept giving hugs. We dated for 8 months this time. He was really irritated me and when I did my bat presentation for my school project he would answer some of the questions that were asked. I think I told him to stop talking 9 times. I was just getting really irritated. I just ignored him for a while. I think for a week I was trying to avoid him as much as I could. May 26, 2011 we broke up. I was thinking of doing it May 20th but I said no I will make it to 8 months. I told him and then handed him a letter explaining more why I decided that.

It was two days later when I actually cried about it. I was texting him and we were talking about it and I just couldn't keep fighting it anymore. That night I cried about 3 times. I felt like I did a stupid thing and that I could have just found away to get by it and be fine. I felt really bad about it. Right now I am ok but I still feel a little bad. I am just glad that we are still really close friends and we can still pick on each other, and talk to each other.

I don't think I will date anyone my senior year at the High School next year when I am there. But we will see anything could happen. It will be interesting to see what happens that year. I just hope my High Point friends...at least some of them still keep in touch with me. There are a few I would like to invite to my graduation party and stuff. I will miss my friends at High Point but I think that will be it.

I hope you enjoyed my very long writing. I will stop now and let you comment. I could write a lot more but I think this is good. And its lunch time at school and after lunch I go to class. Thanks for reading can't wait to see your comments.  (P.S. I will not say names of who I was talking about. You might know but I will not say if your right or wrong if you ask if it is a certain person.)